About Me
My Journey with Horses - and Myself
From Control to Compassion
Helping horse owners shift from traditional pressure to heart-led partnership
I Was Never Afraid of Horses—I Was Afraid of Life
For as long as I can remember, I’ve felt drawn to horses—not with fear, but with a quiet longing.
As a small child, after early years spent facing hospital surgeries and long separations, I clung to safety wherever I could find it. Horses called to me offering peace. Their presence was steady, honest, unspoken, but all to rare in my life.
I dreamed of a connection like the one I saw in Champion the Wonder Horse—a wild stallion who would come to a rock seemingly with knowing, to let the boy leap on bareback. A partnership built on trust, not control.
But the real horse world didn’t offer that dream.
Instead, it taught obedience, dominance, fear.
And slowly, I tucked my dream away, believing perhaps it was never real at all.
By fourteen, I had given up riding. Life carried me forward—through survival, hard work, and decades of navigating a world that often mirrored the very control and suppression I had witnessed in the horse world.
Then, at 46, I found Dolly.
Meeting Dolly: A New Begining
Dolly wasn’t polished or perfect. She was a former broodmare, overlooked and under-muscled—but when I saw her, something stirred awake inside me.
I didn’t understand it fully at the time, but now I know:
I wasn’t choosing her.
She was choosing me.
In the beginning, I lived the dream and I wanted so desperately to do it right.
But stress, doubt, and external pressures crept in. Dolly, sensitive and honest, reflected everything back to me.
When I was tense, she became wary.
When I was heavy with fear, she resisted.
She wasn’t being "naughty." She was trying to tell me the truth:
Connection can’t grow where fear lives.
When others advised punishment and control, I made a different choice.
I listened.
And slowly, Dolly trusted me enough to meet me halfway.
Together, we built something rare: a partnership without force, without fear—rooted in mutual trust and respect.
Loss, Awakening, and the Deeper Truth
Losing Dolly was a heartbreak I still carry.
But it also opened my eyes to something much bigger.
After Dolly came healing.
After her loss came awakening.
I watched the horse world again—with new eyes.
I saw how fear is still packaged as wisdom.
How control is still sold as safety.
How the same toxic patterns that break human spirits are breaking horses every day.
It was never just about riding.
It was about power. About control.
And about the courage it takes to choose something different.
I also knew there were others that thought like me.
Reclaiming My Power
I didn’t just study horses. I studied other people
and mainly I studied myself.
I dove into the teachings of Bob Proctor, Dr Joe Dispenza, and others.
I learned how to shift frequency, break old patterns, raise my consciousness.
I became the coach I always needed.
Not another voice demanding compliance. A voice whispering: You were always enough.
Now, I help horse owners who are ready to lead differently:
• Who want trust, not terror.
• Who want communication, not command. •
Who are ready to stand for their horses—and themselves.
If You Know There's More. - I can Help You Find The Way
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Myths of the Horse World
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